It could be your boss, colleague, family relative or a neighbour, but you surely come across trouble causing people at some point of time. So, who are they? Such people are loaded with negative mind, anger, self-centred, dictatorial, bossy, competitive, uncompromising, argumentative and they wish to stay ahead always.
How to identify trouble causing people?
Whether minor or major issue, most commonly, an understanding is arrived in any situation. But when you begin to realize that things are going out of your hand with you being left alone, that’s the time, you should agree that you are dealing with difficult people.
Tips to Manage Trouble Causing People:
1. Avoid and stay away from arguments
For sure, you know that arguments lead to grave consequences. So, make a decision to keep safe by saying “ we will discuss later.” Or “ I have some urgent work, I’ll talk
to you later.”2. Listen and stay calm unperturbed
Quietness works very heavily for difficult people. Since they are so bossy, your quiet status, disturbs them and sets them to behave properly with you.
3. Humor works
Active humor works when you deal with anger people. It cools them down. Read books on humor or watch comedy shows.
Conclusion
Remember, working with problem people is an art. At times, confronting difficult people may make your life a mess. It’s important to understand before you apply tactics and techniques to manage them.
